Six steps to developing self discipline

Mar 7, 2014 by

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Most of us have good intentions when it comes to developing self discipline. It is our self-discipline that usually dictates the difference between our success and failure in office or successfully going through a diet regime or going to gym and being in good health. It is self-discipline that allows us to put in two hours each day in writing that book we always wanted to write or taking that singing lesson we always wanted to take. Self-discipline builds our character and gives us the confidence that we are capable of achieving bigger and better things in life.

Those with greater self-discipline can rely less on talent and destiny and more on their execution capabilities. They develop their own talent and shape their destiny. Developing self-discipline is almost like building a muscle. If you have very little today, you’re not going to have a lot next week. But that doesn’t mean you can’t develop a tremendous amount over time!

Here are the six steps to developing self discipline over a period of time:

1. First things first: We all tend to put things off until we feel like doing them. That is exactly the opposite of self-discipline. The idea of self-discipline is doing what needs to be done, in-spite of whether you feel like it or not. Do the first things first!

2. Starting small is the key: If your level of self-control is low, it’s almost impossible to improve it dramatically overnight. Start with something small and then build it over a period of time.

  • Perhaps you could start with brushing and flossing twice a day, every single day. Instead of starting an exercise routine of 90 minutes per day, start with 15 minutes.

3. Take a task all the way to completion: Most of us will stop an unpleasant task just before completion. We’ll wash all the dishes, except for that big, greasy frying pan. We mow the grass, but we’ll save the trimming for another day. We clean 90% of the garage, but that last 10 % gets put off until next weekend, and then the next, and so on.

  • As a point of personal honor, consider completing all tasks. Get in the habit of finishing what you start. When you start a task that you should be able to complete within a day, finish it. You’ll discover that attitude will carry over to a lot of other areas of your life.
4. Learn to work through negative feelings: Negative feelings are what really stop us. We think about doing something and get that nauseating feeling in the pit of our stomach. But these feelings don’t have to stop you from taking action. Just acknowledge the discomfort and act anyway. In time, it will go away.

5. Set yourself time limits: Set a deadline for yourself and use it to your advantage. Along the same lines, a simple timer can be handy to keep you on track each day. Time pressure is very effective at helping many people to focus.

6. Take short breaks every once in a while: While it can vary from person to person, for most people, studies have shown that a 10-minute break every hour can improve productivity.

  • Get up and get a glass of water. Make a short phone call. Avoid getting distracted by something really enjoyable.
  • That video game can easily stretch into 30 minutes or more. Watching YouTube videos can lead to the same result. Your break should be a break, but it shouldn’t be entertainment. Avoid letting your breaks distract you from the work at hand.

Self-discipline is an infinitely valuable quality that you can use to great advantage. In most cases, you know what you need to do to be successful. The challenge lies in getting yourself to do what needs to be done. Work on increasing your self-discipline and enrich every aspect of your life.

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